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More & more I am reminded to have faith in my process, that I should never be afraid to”ruin” the work. 

Often, during this creative process we fall in love with what we make, sometimes before the best ever emerges. 

black and white close-up of a gothic artdoll with skulls in her eyes

Therefore, it is imperative to know how to constructively “murder your darlings” to allow the work to reach its greatest potential.

This is very different than self-sabotage, as it is done with full faith & trust in the process that we are making room for the divine intervention…that something greater than we ever imagined will inevitably emerge.

Murder Your Darlings

a poem by Stefanie Vega

When you murder your darlings
you are aware of the callings 
to uproot those seeds that you’ve sown. 
To be reluctantly willing
to continue the tilling
for the treasure that’s yet to be known.